How We Live Together
Keeping a Household
To keep a house means to do the cooking, cleaning, and other tasks involved in the running of a household. This is what comprises a significant portion of a homemaker’s job. Housecleaning is done to make the home look and smell better and to make it safer and easier to live in. The secret to keeping a clean house is doing these simple tasks daily, so messes and clutter never get out of control.
- Small tasks add up quickly; if it takes less than a minute to complete, do it immediately.
- Dirty countertops attract pests and make your kitchen look awful.
- Wipe the sink basin and faucet after you’re done getting ready for the day.
Keep a container of disinfecting wipes under your bathroom clink, so they’re handy.
Daily Tasks
There aren’t many things in a home that need to be done every day, but the ones that do make a significant impact on the quality of life in that home. Though the upkeep of private spaces is at the general discretion of the individual member, following list is for the maintenance of the communal areas of the property:
- Wipe down wet bathroom counters.
- Squeegee the shower doors, walls, and floors after every shower.
- Wash dishes after each meal.
- Sweep or use a cordless vacuum on any heavily trafficked spots.
- Put things back where they belong after you’re done with them.
Each member and dependent have an expected amount of participation in the process
Communal Chores Setup Across Finding Camelot
At Finding Camelot, we implement a structured chore system to ensure that communal living spaces remain clean, orderly, and welcoming. This system not only promotes responsibility and cooperation among members but also supports the smooth operation of our communal environments. All without overly burdening any one individual.
Weekly Chore Assignment System:
- Daily Responsibilities: Each day of the week is dedicated to specific communal responsibilities. These can range from cleaning shared spaces, managing waste and recycling, to more specialized tasks like garden maintenance or communal meal preparation.
- Member Assignments: To ensure equitable distribution of work, each member is assigned to one specific chore day per week. This allows every member to contribute fairly, rotating through different responsibilities to keep the schedule dynamic and balanced.
- Flexible Assignments: Recognizing that members have varying schedules and capabilities, the chore system is designed to be flexible. Members can swap days with each other or take on additional tasks as needed, accommodating personal commitments while still fulfilling their community responsibilities.
Benefits of the Chore System
- Equity and Fairness: The chore rotation ensures that no single member is consistently burdened with more demanding tasks than others. This fosters a sense of fairness and mutual respect among all members.
- Community Engagement: Regular participation in chores strengthens the connection members feel towards their living space and each other, fostering a strong communal bond.
- Skill Development: The variety in chores allows members to learn and hone different skills, enhancing their personal development and contributing to the community’s self-sufficiency.
- Transparency and Communication: Clear communication about chore assignments and expectations is central to the system’s success. Regular meetings and updates help ensure that everyone is informed and any issues are addressed promptly.
Through this system, we ensure that all members are actively involved in the upkeep of their community, fostering an environment of shared responsibility and cooperation.
The Household-Level MealPrep Program
At the household level, adult members take turns preparing meals for the rest of the household. Each household maintains a basic pantry, stocked with common funds and consisting of staple canned, frozen, and dry goods. Members have full access to these ingredients when preparing meals. However, any additional or specialty ingredients not stocked in the pantry must be provided at the member’s own expense.
- Meals are served buffet style.
- Leftovers are portioned out for refrigeration or freezing.
- Dependents contribute with age-appropriate kitchen and dining tasks.
Basic Principles of Communal Meal Prep
The household meal preparation process is more than just cooking—it’s a collaborative effort designed to ensure that every member of the household has access to nutritious, cost-effective, and thoughtfully prepared meals. MealPrep is structured around key principles that balance fair contribution, efficiency, and nutritional balance while fostering a sense of shared responsibility.
1. Shared Responsibility
Meal preparation is a collective effort. Members take turns planning, cooking, and cleaning, ensuring that the workload is evenly distributed and that no one is left to manage the kitchen alone.
2. Nutritional Consideration
Meals are planned with a focus on balanced nutrition to support the well-being of all members. Consideration is given to dietary needs, allergies, and preferences, ensuring that meals are both inclusive and nourishing.
3. Efficient Planning & Organization
Households utilize a structured system for meal planning that includes:
- Rotating meal assignments to distribute tasks fairly.
- Bulk purchasing and pantry management to minimize waste and reduce costs.
- Standardized portion guidelines to maintain consistency and accommodate all members.
4. Household Pantry Access
The household pantry is a shared resource, stocked based on collective input from the common household purse. Access to pantry staples is tied to MealPrep participation, ensuring that all members who contribute to, also benefit from, the system equitably.
5. Community Experience
Whenever possible, meals serve as a communal event to encourage social engagement and strengthen household bonds. While flexibility is allowed, the goal is to foster connection through shared mealtimes.
6. Adaptability & Respect
While the system is structured, it remains adaptable. Members communicate openly about dietary needs, scheduling conflicts, and preferences, allowing for flexibility while maintaining fairness.
By following these principles, the MealPrep process ensures efficiency, promotes cooperation, and supports the well-being of all household members.
MealPrep Scheduling
The MealPrep scheduling process ensures a fair and structured approach to meal preparation, balancing responsibility while maintaining flexibility. This system is designed to streamline meal assignments and maintain consistency within the household.
1. Rotation by Member Room
Meal assignments follow a room-based rotation, meaning each room is responsible for one meal slot, regardless of whether it is single or double occupancy. This ensures an equitable distribution of duties across all household members.
2. Menu Development
The pioneering household is responsible for developing a weekly menu that features meals suitable for community consumption. These meals should be:
- Easy to prepare
- Customizable to individual preferences
- Nutritionally balanced
Members have the opportunity to submit new recipes for household approval during the weekly meeting prior to their assigned cooking day.
3. Assignments & Volunteering
Beyond the designated meal preparer, additional support is structured through:
Dependent Assignment Chart – Dependent members participate in age-appropriate kitchen tasks, reinforcing structured independence.
Volunteer Signup – Open for members who wish to assist.
- Unlimited availability for gardening-related tasks.
- Limited availability for kitchen tasks to ensure efficiency and prevent overcrowding.
This structured system maintains fairness while keeping meal preparation efficient and enjoyable for all household members.
Benefits of a Meal Sharing Program
Meal sharing is more than just a convenience—it’s a cornerstone of community living that enhances efficiency, affordability, and social connection. At Finding Camelot, our meal sharing program fosters a sense of belonging while ensuring that members receive nutritious, home-cooked meals without the burden of daily meal prep falling on any single individual.
1. Cost Efficiency & Reduced Waste
By pooling resources, households can purchase ingredients in bulk, significantly reducing grocery expenses. Meal sharing also helps minimize food waste by ensuring that ingredients are used efficiently across planned meals.
2. Time-Saving & Reduced Workload
With a structured MealPrep schedule, each member takes a turn, drastically cutting down the time individuals spend cooking daily. This allows for more personal time while ensuring that meals are still homemade and thoughtfully prepared.
3. Nutritional Balance & Dietary Consideration
A planned meal-sharing system allows for better meal variety and nutritional balance. With a collective approach, meals are designed to be nutritionally complete while also accommodating dietary restrictions and preferences through customizable options.
4. Strengthened Community Bonds
Shared meals create opportunities for social engagement and meaningful conversations, reinforcing household relationships. Sitting down together fosters a sense of unity and strengthens interpersonal connections.
5. Skill Building & Cultural Exchange
Meal sharing provides a collaborative learning experience, where members can improve their cooking skills and share food traditions. This creates an enriching environment where everyone benefits from diverse culinary knowledge.
6. Stress Reduction & Mental Well-Being
The burden of daily meal planning and preparation can be overwhelming. Meal sharing eases stress, offering predictability and reliability, so members always have access to a warm, prepared meal without the mental strain of last-minute cooking.
Through our meal sharing program, Finding Camelot ensures that meals are a communal experience that promotes efficiency, connection, and overall well-being.
Household Childcare Program
The Household Childcare Program at Finding Camelot operates on a rotational schedule by individual, ensuring that responsibility is distributed fairly across all household members.
This program is designed to provide age-appropriate guidance.
All while maintaining a casual, babysitter-style approach rather than a structured daycare system. The level of supervision and guidance varies based on the dependent’s age, fostering a balanced approach to independence and responsibility.
Direct Guidance (6 & Under)
- The primary focus of the household childcare program is on the youngest dependents, ensuring they receive direct supervision and foundational teaching.
- Caregivers focus on early communication skills, basic morality, and social development, preparing them for structured independence as they grow.
Responsibility & Autonomy (7-12)
- This age group has more household responsibilities and thus more freedom in how they spend their time.
- The assigned caregiver remains available in proximity, but the children are encouraged to make their own choices within a framework of clear expectations and corresponding consequences.
Independence Adjacent (13+)
- The oldest dependents no longer require direct or indirect supervision.
- They are trusted to self-manage their time and responsibilities while integrating into the household’s structured independence model.
Scheduling & Review Process
- The rotational schedule is set at the beginning of each month to ensure all caregivers know their assigned days.
- The schedule is reviewed during weekly household meetings to address any conflicts or adjustments needed, ensuring clarity and alignment among members.
Our approach ensures that dependents receive the support they need while gradually developing independence.
This reinforcing Finding Camelot’s principles of structured guidance, autonomy, and communal responsibility.
Benefits of a Communal Childcare
Communal childcare offers a holistic, supportive, and balanced approach to raising children in an environment that emphasizes shared responsibility, structured independence, and social cohesion. By integrating caregiving into the fabric of household life, children receive consistent guidance while adults share the workload in a sustainable and practical way.
1. Shared Responsibility & Reduced Burden
- The communal approach distributes childcare responsibilities among multiple caregivers, preventing burnout and ensuring no single adult carries the full burden of child-rearing.
- Parents and caregivers gain flexibility in their schedules while knowing that children are receiving attentive, high-quality care.
2. Social & Emotional Development
- Children interact with multiple caregivers and peers, improving their ability to form healthy relationships and social skills.
- Exposure to a variety of adults with different strengths and perspectives helps broaden emotional intelligence and adaptability.
3. Independence & Responsibility
- The system gradually introduces children to age-appropriate levels of autonomy, fostering a sense of personal responsibility and independence.
- Older children serve as role models for younger dependents, reinforcing peer mentorship and accountability.
4. Strengthened Community Bonds
- Communal childcare encourages deeper connections among members, fostering a sense of trust and collective investment in each child’s well-being.
- Households operate as tight-knit support networks, where members can rely on one another for guidance and support.
5. Consistency & Stability
- A structured communal environment ensures that children receive consistent routines and guidance, providing stability that is crucial for cognitive and emotional growth.
- Households create an atmosphere where morals, communication skills, and cooperation are reinforced daily, ensuring that children grow into well-adjusted and self-sufficient adults.
By adopting a communal childcare approach,
Finding Camelot ensures that every child is nurtured within a framework that balances support, structure, and independence.
We are creating a foundation for healthy development and long-term success.